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Comment on QUESTION #16 - July 4, 2010

Katrina — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 09:38:30 GMT

I travel constantly and started to bring home one little item from each new place I traveled to. I put them on a shelf in my house and basically once they go up there I forget about them...so I realized to me these items were meaningless and a waste of money.
Now every new place i go to i try to experience something i never have...the memories of these experiences far surpass the memories little dust collectors spark in me. It can be something silly like trying every different sauce coons of fries in Amsterdam sittig in a square and laughing that I am having such a good time indulging or it can be a biplane ride over the grand canyon...big or small...cheap or expensive...as long as it was an experience it stays with me forever...and the stories i get to share are priceless!

Comment on QUESTION #16 - July 4, 2010

Andi — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 05:07:17 GMT

I loved this question, Cali....and am always charmed on so many levels by your depth.

I spent 6 days, over the 4th, hanging at the beach in Montauk and at friends. I feel so blessed for so very many reasons. Being able to run on that gorgeous beach made the soul sing. I swear I could cry right now thinking about the beauty of the morning...the sunshine, me on a rock and the ocean at my feet....I miss it so very much.

More importantly....my friends...old and new. What amazing people I have in my life. I miss them more than anything and would happily live on a commune if I could pick the people to live on it with. Then there is my great kid and hubby....what blessings.

Having said all that....scoring a pair of Gucci sandals I have been coveting for 2 months at 75 off....that too was a high!

Hey....I'm a Gemini....so if you are reading conflict....that is my excuse :-)

Yet....at the end of the day....my most precious things are my memories.

Comment on QUESTION #16 - July 4, 2010

dee — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 21:05:01 GMT

I would have to say both as well.
We recently returned from 2 weeks (and getting married) in British Columbia..traveling to various parts of beautiful BC. Taking in the culture, indulging in the local cuisine and having a great time. We chose local art and Native Pacific Northwest Indian art to bring home and decorate our house, an investment in our future together and on our memories of a lovely time spent and reminder of the beauty and simplicity of where we got married. Mostly, our pictures that we took hundreds literally possibly close to 1000 and the the little things that my now husband grabbed off the cuff to be placed in a future scrapbook. I think this way we are able to capture it all in a few different "priceless" ways

Comment on QUESTION #16 - July 4, 2010

Carla — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 11:30:08 GMT

Beautifully written sissy.
Of all the things in my life that have meaning, it's hands down the experiences I've been fortunate enough to have that hold significance. A picture to spark the memory would be the only object that would be equally as blissful. One thing I know for sure is that none of us will be thinking about the things we owned in our life, but rather the people we've shared our life with and the memories we've created.

Comment on QUESTION #16 - July 4, 2010

Rob — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 03:42:51 GMT

Great post, Cali...I especially like the line "I feel like a character from “Eat, Pray, Love”, without the divorce." Rock on girlie!

I love water, any kind of water, pool, beach, lake...I've always been a fish, swimming at a young age...Thanks to my stepdad, we used to go to Long Beach and PR, and I love swimming in the ocean...The last time I went to the beach I was bodysurfing in the waves and laughing my ass off...I remember I turned to a stranger swimming nearby and said, "Can you believe this is free?"

Comment on QUESTION #16 - July 4, 2010

Brandi — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 03:19:00 GMT

I like a combination of both.
The flow of vacation, visiting with loved ones, devouring life's syncronicities, hosting get togethers while making sure to snap a photo or bring one of nature's momentos home to get me through until the next trip or precious event.

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Debbie — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 23:19:22 GMT

Cali,
you are the opposite of shallow, by far! You love life & are living it! That is what I admire most about you. I appreciate what you share with us. I may never see these places, but I can becoz of you. I forgot the question & had to go back :) my 'splurge' is trying to spend quality/quantity time with my family. My splurge is to grab the check when we go out to eat, meals to take & make with my son, and taking my granddaughter to the movies or store. I am blessed with a family that enjoys each others company. I do enjoy trinkets to remember the occasion.. sometimes..I feel these are the things that will stay with us our lives. Thank You for being YOU.

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Diane — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 21:25:05 GMT

I would have to say that EXPERIENCES and making memories are what I prefer. Like you I treasure the feeling of hiking in the woods, riding my bike with the sun on my face or just sitting with a great friend sharing a bottle of wine. You can't get better than that.

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Daniel — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 18:30:21 GMT

To wander freely in places that I have not seen before. To talk and really see people that I had not met and experience who they are. To be able to sit quietly with no thoughts and simply experience the Now as it unfolds before my eyes. Not have to be anywhere in particular and have no plans. I don't know if that is my splurge but it is what I strive for and do not seem to be able to do enough of... :)

Comment on QUESTION #16 - July 4, 2010

Marni — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 14:35:15 GMT

Without question the thing that brings me the most glee is free time. The time that I give myself without guilt to train, pressure to move on to the next thing or an agenda set forth by my resposibilities as a mother. Free mindshare. Empty mental real estate. When I can reflect, gather my thoguhts and align my spirit and body.